Hello to you all above that have suffered the loss of a baby.
I don't understand why a lot of things in life happen to us and I have been spared the pain and agony of losing a baby. With other things though I have been comforted with the thought that things that has happened to me have not happened to punish me for what I have done or didn't do or for what someone else has done or didn't do but happened so I could understand the pain and heartaches of many others and could be a comfort to them.
It is hard understand what someone else is going through unless one has been through it themselves.