Does any1 find the whole situation of these extended familys realy tire u out?
My hubbie has an 11yr daughter from his previous marriage, the ex lives 320miles away with the daughter and the original set up was that we had her twice a month/shared with his mother.
But to start off with his mother was having her every weekend so the mother could go out partying and weekends away. We managed to get this sorted and now we just have her every other weekend but the thing is he also has a step daughter who is 17, n she comes down everyweek end 2 stay with her boyfriend she manages 2 get the train here n home again without any help, but as soon as my hubbie has 2 take his daughter back half way 2 meet her mother the 17yr old all of a sudden cant get on the train. The thing is he is always saying we should act like a family when she is down,my 2yr old worships the ground she walks on. And realy a weekend isnt enough time 2 do it all, so when its time 2 drop her off half way n the stepdaughter wants a lift back up 2, my daughter n i seem to get left out n the cold,this 17 year old knows exactly wat shes doing, she sees her real dad every weekend 2 and her mothers boyfriend cant do enough 4 her either and my hubbie says he cant just disown her as he was there 4 her 4 10yrs, im not sugesting he does but shes a big girl now n can take care of her self.
Am i just being selfish n jealous or am i right 2 feel the way i do?
I mean 5 of us cant fit n the car (little 1 still in child seat)
He doesnt hear 4rm the 17yr old unless she wants something!!!