OMG kids

[Cocksparrer]

Ok my son is 9 and hes been out playing since about 11am, he has popped back now & then to show hes ok. But he has a mobile so easily done via that . LOL
I have just had some kid (girl) who is a member of a so called (was) trouble makers family, the naughty ones are now in a childs care home or whatever with asbos, so been quiet here for about 3 years.
Anyhow she's 14 ranting & raving at me at the door, so I said "Why are you shouting at me im right here". Shes not taking breaths between sentences just rambling on. So I asked her "Why have you brought the whole park to my door" Im sure they could hear you regardless" She continued to rant & rave and puff herself out.
So I said to some of the kids who now started rambling loudly "Shut up!" (thats me)
I said "Whats going on" they all satrt up I shouted "One at a time & im not interested in peeps who were not there at the time" Loads then shut up. So I asked Nathan a boy that my son was with who is about 14-15. He tends to look after my son. Anyway I asked Nathan what had been going on & he said. That the girl started by throwing stones at my son, Nathan went in front of my son to take the stones aim, apparently the girl wasnt happy with that & her pals joined in the throwing match, so Nathan & my son threw stuff back. Now 2 against 6 aint bad when apparently they got the better of the six.
So I said to this girl if you all cant play nicely stay away from eachother, she said "Arent you going to tell him off" I replied "No coz it seems to me you lot started it, they got the better of you, and youre the one shouting & bringing the whole park with you"
She wasnt at all pleased, she realied I was going to do nowt about it walked up the path ranting & raving at my son, obsenities & threats. SO I called back to her "Anything you have said happens to my son, you will have me on your tail" She continued off with ehr little gang of friends threatening my son if ever he was in the same park as her again she would get him. So I laughed at her childish ways and advised her not to do anything to my son. As she is definately no angel herself. My son shouted at her "Shut up before your horns get too hot for your ehad" She had complained to me that my son had called her a Devil & I asked her whats wrong with being a devil. Now childish as it may seem, but it looked to me that her & her friends had obviously lost a war they started & expected me to repremand my son for something he didnt start. He was merely defending himself. So after the fools had disappeared we could still ehar them at the end of the road ranting & raving. Her mainly. I said to the boys go to another park, they said they didnt want to go to the other parks, so I said to Nathan do you know where the big park is. He said he lived near there, I said right both of you go there, but make sure you bring my son back as he cannot walk that distance on his own, to come back. He said he would so hopefully the sillyness will be over & done with.

I dunno some kids eh!

[MadcatwomanEnterprises]

What a pain :-(

My youngest and her mate went to the park in the summer holidays - they are 12, had their mobiles, it was daylight, loads of families in the park etc. A bunch of about ten lads came, and in front of the families, kicked the crap out of the girls. Well, my daughter's mate is only the size of an 8 year old to start with. It took three weeks for the police to take a statement off them (by which time all the cuts and bruises had faded), another three weeks for them to take a video statement off my youngest (by this time her mate had moved out of the area - lucky her). So now the kids who beat my daughter up have their parents threatening me, the lads are threatening my daughter in school and no one does a thing. My youngest told the police it was all videoed as a happy slapping by one of the lads, but the police have never asked him to hand in his phone so they can use it as evidence, so the lads are happily passing it around to all their other mates, kids at school etc. Of course the lads are denying it all, and some of the parents are screaming about they will get solicitors to clear their kids names etc. It would save most of that if the police would just get off their backside and get hold of that video from the phone it originated with. So what happens instead? My daughter is having to try to make a deal with the lad who took the original video (it is still on his phone) to tell him she won't press charges if he gives her the video. Which she has told me she hopes she gets the video because then the police and families will know exactly who was involved.

What gets me so annoyed is the parents who don't give a sh*t and think their kids are total angels in this, the police who don't give a toss about stopping these kids (this time they were 5:1 on a set of girls, next time it could be an 8yr old, it might not be physical abuse it could be rape etc), and especially the fact that families in the park stood by, watched this assault happen, did nothing but look the other way and the police can't be bothered to ask for witnesses to come forward. I mean, am I meant to do that job myself? And why couldn't these families at the park step in instead of ignoring it all? Next time it could be their kids. I've stuck my neck out in these situations before, not something I want to do, but my conscience won't let me stand by - obviously some of these other people in the park have no conscience.

[swopmebob]

What a pain :-(

My youngest and her mate went to the park in the summer holidays - they are 12, had their mobiles, it was daylight, loads of families in the park etc. A bunch of about ten lads came, and in front of the families, kicked the crap out of the girls. Well, my daughter's mate is only the size of an 8 year old to start with. It took three weeks for the police to take a statement off them (by which time all the cuts and bruises had faded), another three weeks for them to take a video statement off my youngest (by this time her mate had moved out of the area - lucky her). So now the kids who beat my daughter up have their parents threatening me, the lads are threatening my daughter in school and no one does a thing. My youngest told the police it was all videoed as a happy slapping by one of the lads, but the police have never asked him to hand in his phone so they can use it as evidence, so the lads are happily passing it around to all their other mates, kids at school etc. Of course the lads are denying it all, and some of the parents are screaming about they will get solicitors to clear their kids names etc. It would save most of that if the police would just get off their backside and get hold of that video from the phone it originated with. So what happens instead? My daughter is having to try to make a deal with the lad who took the original video (it is still on his phone) to tell him she won't press charges if he gives her the video. Which she has told me she hopes she gets the video because then the police and families will know exactly who was involved.

What gets me so annoyed is the parents who don't give a sh*t and think their kids are total angels in this, the police who don't give a toss about stopping these kids (this time they were 5:1 on a set of girls, next time it could be an 8yr old, it might not be physical abuse it could be rape etc), and especially the fact that families in the park stood by, watched this assault happen, did nothing but look the other way and the police can't be bothered to ask for witnesses to come forward. I mean, am I meant to do that job myself? And why couldn't these families at the park step in instead of ignoring it all? Next time it could be their kids. I've stuck my neck out in these situations before, not something I want to do, but my conscience won't let me stand by - obviously some of these other people in the park have no conscience.

Bullying tactics again.just goes to show girls are tarred with the same brush as most boys are.Good luck to you two mums,lets hope the fire burns out soon!!

[Armstrongs]

My advice....write two letters:

First, to the Chairman of your Police Authority (not the Police), they are the overseeing body with the power to "kick backsides".

Second, to the Chair of Governors at your daughters school, again they have the power to hold the school to account.

Outline everything that you've said here.
Both bodies have a statutory obligation to acknowledge & reply to you.

Hope you get some results.

Yvonne x

[swopmebob]

My advice....write two letters:

First, to the Chairman of your Police Authority (not the Police), they are the overseeing body with the power to "kick backsides".

Second, to the Chair of Governors at your daughters school, again they have the power to hold the school to account.

Outline everything that you've said here.
Both bodies have a statutory obligation to acknowledge & reply to you.

Hope you get some results.

Yvonne x

Nuther ultra well informed mum,well said and done too....

[Cocksparrer]

No point in chattin to the girls mum on our account, she is just as bad as her kids. There was an incident earlier this year where my son he's only small he may be 9 but height wise hes about age 5. He was chased up a tree by about 7 kids, they were throwing stuff at him rocks bricks branches & stuff. He phoned me up from his moby & told me where he was. I went to the park and saw his friend, his friend was just about to announce my arrival & I put my finger to my mouth. I saw what the kids were doing & 3 of them were supposed to be my son's friends. Ah well who needs enemies. ANyhow there was this big asian boy ranting & swearing throwing bricks & stuff up the tree. I walked right up to him I was literally in his face. ANd I started to have a go at him, advising him I would throw stuff at him see how he liked it. He was literally cacking himself, I asked where he lived & advised him I wanted to see his parents, he wouldnt answer me, so I got my moby out pretended to call the police and the boy stood there & peed himself. So I took the micky out of him. My son came out of the tree, I saw the bruises & I ranted at the kid did he think it was fun in throwing stuff at my son, what would he do if my son had fallen out the tree seriously hurt himself or died from broken neck, would he be able to live with that. He quietly said "no". I said then dont do it, if I catch any of you picking on my son again, you will have me to contend with, if you wanna bring your parents along fine, il do them too. On my own I can defend myself but I get so damn angry. Especially when I did call the police & we had 4 witness's. I even noticed 3 parents in the park they did nothing they sat & watched me have a go at the kids but they did nothing to stop what was going on. Now that is disgusting. I dont ever feel threatened if there is more than 1 person. I will argue & defend myself if I have to. I do walk away if need be but rarely. But when its a gang of kids ranging from 5 - 14 then I do loose my temper at the older ones as they SHOULD know better.

[Cocksparrer]

Oh by the way the police did sod all about it. Now theres a surprise, but the big asian kid has behaved since then he advised my son "Your mums scary I wont fight you again" Ah such is life