I take it she's not a 20 year old gold-digger then? It's a good start if she has considered your feelings re:- stopping over. I know it seems odd, but she seems a nice thoughtful lady. If you can be friends that would be nice for your dad too.
Accept the compliments Chloe. It's an amazing weight loss. I managed to put 4 lbs on over Xmas. Ok, call it 2 kilo's as it sounds less. This year I am definitely going to try harder..... I think I said that at the beginning of 2004 too. You're looking good. Good for you.... even if we haven't got the clappy hands smiley any more.