Mags, Sorry to hear you had a bad experience on your first 2 items. If I'm buying from a seller with no feedback, before bidding, I ask a question to see if seller responds in a timely manner. If I bid and win item, I never pay until seller sends me an invoice. I also pay using a credit card so if there's a problem I can go to my credit card company for assistance to get my money back. I do this on all sites I use, not just ebid. And I must say so far all my transactions on ebid have gone very smoothly using this method. Hope this helps.