regarding your laptop you dont post it till you get payed so what is the problem? i have payed for things and never receved them on ebay but ppal returned the money so i never lost out you get messed obout a bit but in the end you get your money back. everone has to start some were its just unfortunate that all newbies ( zero feedbacks ) are not trusted i had a few people who had zero feedback bid on my bears but i had no problem with payments so its up to the sellers what they do ? but remember you were a newbie with zero feedback once?